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A community comes together to help to Puerto Rico in the wake of Hurricane Maria

Yesterday, my husband and I ran a Puerto Rico hurricane relief drop-off center in our community.

I read once that “we are all interconnected in a web of kindness from which it is impossible to separate ourselves,” in a book by Geshe Kelsang Gyatso.

Yesterday, I finally understood what he meant.


Five million Puerto Ricans live in the mainland United States. After Hurricane María passed, not one of us

My mom’s first FB post six days after the storm: after the storm comes the calm.
My mom’s first FB post six days after the storm: after the storm comes the calm.

We all knew thing were bad back home. But we didn’t know how bad.

By Sunday—five days after the storm—I still hadn’t been able to reach my family. I refused to give into despair.

A post appeared on my Facebook feed announcing that two Atlanta restaurants were collecting supplies to send to the Island, Buen Provecho and Porch Light Latin Kitchen. They were coordinating with PREP Atlanta and Cuchifritos Eatery to find a cargo flight and load it up with supplies. They had already been successful at shipping water and canned food.

I wanted to cry. I had found my people. The get-it-done people. This is Puerto Ricans at their very best. We get shit done.


“I think we will need the boy’s SUV’s,” I told my husband on Monday as we started to plan a community drop-off event for the following Saturday.

The head of the Norcross Discovery Garden, Deb Harris, let us use the garden as the official drop-off location. With it’s bright-colored flowers and raised beds bursting with ripe crops, this was the perfect location.   

I posted a call for supplies on the community board, Nextdoor Norcross, thinking only a few people would show up. We would load the back of our cars then drive the supplies to one of the main drop-off locations.

We were wrong. So very wrong.

One post, got shared and reposted. I spent the week fielding calls, emails, texts and social media messages.

By Thursday, it became clear we were going to need a truck and volunteers.

A lady whom I’ve never met, Jessica Granese, offered to come to our house and start the sorting process. She also bought dozens of boxes and packing material. She was a blessing!

By Friday, the entire carport of our home was full of supplies and we still had the event on Saturday.

Our carport Friday night, where neighbors, family and friends showed up to help.
Our carport Friday night, where neighbors, family and friends showed up to help.

Our neighbors came over to help us sort through the mountain of boxes, pack and label supplies. It was a tiny preview to the following day.   


On Saturday, I showed up to pick up a U-Haul truck at 8am. I started the engine, got the truck moving but had to stop. There was a horrible screech coming from the front wheel. It quickly became clear the truck was going nowhere. I frantically called my husband.

“There are two people here that have a trailer,” he told me.

“Who?” I asked.

“They live in town. I don’t know who they are but they can help,” he said.

I learned later that morning their names were Greg and Meg. They will never know how much that small act of kindness meant to me in that moment of desperation.

I got out of the U-Haul and walked over to the counter, where a small-frammed middle-aged woman had given me the keys to the truck just moments earlier. The conversation went something like this:

ME: “I need another truck.”

LADY: “I don’t have another truck.”

ME: “What about the one parked out back?”

LADY: “Someone else reserved it.”

ME: (Starts having an apocalyptic meltdown in front of the glass passthrough window) “I’m not leaving without that truck.”

Ten minutes later, I was driving the truck home.

When I got there, a group of community volunteers from the City of Norcross were waiting to load up everything in our carport. The City’s Director of Public Works, Utilities and Parks, Mary Beth Bender, had sent them over to help. Greg and Meg were also there with their trailer.

City of Norcross and Norcross Discovery Garden volunteers. These women are amazing!
City of Norcross and Norcross Discovery Garden volunteers. These women are amazing!

Again, I had to fight back tears. This was beyond anything I imagined.

We loaded up the truck and headed over to the garden where the supplies were already piling up. It was 8:50 a.m. The drop-off was scheduled to begin at 9.

A line of cars began to form almost immediately after we arrived. More volunteers seemed to manifest out of thin air. I can’t remember their names, but I know we will always be connected by this beautiful web of kindness.

At 10 a.m. two things happened:

-The truck we had rented was already full and we still had two hours to go. Two amazing volunteers— Beth Tynan and Laura Nall— offered to go get a second truck.

-I took a bathroom break. This is significant because I finally had a moment to check my phone. There was one news alert: Trump says of Puerto Rico recovery efforts,”They want everything to be done for them.” I blinked a few times as I read on, swallowing down a wave of bile and nausea. I deleted the alert, washed my hands and took a good look in the mirror. The night before I had heard San Juan Mayor, Carmen Yulín Cruz Soto, say, “this is not a time for distractions.” I repeated her words as I walked out of that bathroom.

This family drove for an hour from Toccoa, GA to bring supplies.
This family drove for an hour from Toccoa, GA to bring supplies.

When I returned to the garden, there was a new line of cars waiting to drop-off supplies. There were more volunteers. More supplies waiting to be sorted and packed. The second truck had arrived and needed to be loaded. A family had driven from Toccoa, GA (an hour away!) with a truck full of supplies. They couldn’t bring everything they had, they told me. They would have to rent a bigger truck to move the rest. 

This was no time for distractions indeed. The web of kindness just kept growing.


We finished packing and loading around 1 p.m. We drove to PREP Atlanta, where dozens of volunteers were receiving donations, then sorting, packing and labeling them so they could be shipped. 

The scene at PREP Atlanta, where volunteers are needed to sort and prep supplies for shipping.
The scene at PREP Atlanta, where volunteers are needed to sort and prep supplies for shipping.

“We are at capacity here,” someone told us. “Sofía will need to figure this out.”

I smiled wide at the mention of Sofía’s name. I knew exactly who she was even though we had never met.

Earlier in the week, Atlanta grassroots organizer Sofía Arroyo, and I had exchanged texts and a phone call about cargo flight logistics. Over the phone, her spirited voice full of the optimism I love about the women of my Island, gave me hope. She was part of my get-it-done people. Now, standing in front of this woman I couldn’t help but smile and give her a hug.

We formed a caravan and drove to a new storage facility where the grueling work of unloading started. More people began showing up with trucks full of supplies they had collected. A human chain formed to sped up the work. There were people of all ages including children, a man with a prosthetic leg, people wearing #Pa’lantePuertoRico t-shirts. They spoke English and Spanish and that in-between lingo we call Spanglish.

Volunteers form a human chain to unload supplies.
Volunteers form a human chain to unload supplies.

The web of kindness was at work. It was connecting us a deeper level. Names seemed irrelevant.


Pa’lante literally means moving forward. It’s a contraction of the Spanish words para and delante.

The first time I spoke to my Mami over the phone six days had passed since Hurricane María ravaged the Island. Tears of joy streamed down my face at the sound of her sweet voice. I felt my heart pour itself through the phone line and touch hers. 

My mom’s main concern was letting us know that our family was safe and that we didn’t need to worry.

Estamos bien,” she told me in an uplifting voice. A short phrase that carries a lot of meaning in Puerto Rican speak. I would define it as “we will make it through this, we are resilient people.”

My husband, Chris, also knows as my personal superhero. He loaded two trucks, unloaded one and gave me a big hug at the end of a crazy day. I’m one lucky gal.
My husband, Chris, also knows as my personal superhero. He loaded two trucks, unloaded one and gave me a big hug at the end of a crazy day. I’m one lucky gal.

It’s true that the Island may never be the same again. I have heard from friends already planing to move to the mainland U.S. in the coming weeks as a result of the devastation. They will have to leave everything they know behind and start from nothing.

But there is also a deeper truth. That in the face of such destruction, we have reached out to each other with hearts full of compassion. We have relied whole-heartedly on the kindness of strangers. We have prayers with hearts full of devotion and faith. In the last few days, I have seen the truth of humanity—that we exist in a web of kindness from which it is impossible to separate ourselves. Anything else is a distraction.


A thousand million thank you’s to everyone who donated and volunteered at Saturdays’ event. You are too many to name, but our hearts will forever be connected by this infinite web of kindness. 


PREP Atlanta, Buen Provecho and Porch Light Latin Kitchen need volunteers to organize, store and prepare supplies for shipping. To help visit


Atlanta volunteers are working with If you wish to help, you can make a donation on their website.


Here are instructions on how individuals can use Delta’s program to ship relief supplies.



Dear Friends,

This Saturday September 30th we will be organizing a supplies drive to help people affected by Hurricane María in Puerto Rico.

The owners and staff of two Atlanta Restaurants — Buen Provecho and Porch Light — are organizing relief efforts and transportation logistics to the Island. They are working directly with Unidos for Puerto Rico to coordinate distribution on the ground. The first flight already left this week carrying water and canned goods. A second flight is in the works.

Local restaurants collecting supplies for Puerto Rico

THIS SATURDAY SEPTEMBER 30TH: We will be collecting donations at Norcross Discovery Garden from 9am-12pm. Address: 189 Lawrenceville Street, Norcross, Georgia, GA 30071

Here is the list of supplies needed.
1. Bottled water (any size)
2. Insect repellent
3. Ziplock bag with travel sized toiletries
4. Canned goods (preferably those with a pull top opening)
5. Powdered milk
6. Hand sanitizer
7. Batteries (any size but especially C and D)
8. Baby formula
9. Diapers
10. Adult diapers
11. Baby wipes
12. First aid kits
13. Non prescription medicine (for children and adults)
14. Cleaning supplies
15. Feminine hygiene products
16. Duct tape
17. Trash bags
18. Disposable silverware
19. Sheets (only new items please)
20. Towels (only new items please)
21. Battery powered fans (Friends have founds these at Bed Bath and Beyond)
22. Gloves (work or medical)

We are NOT taking clothing or houseware items at this time. 

You may also drop off donations during work-hours at:
Porch Light Latin Kitchen: 300 Village Green Cir SE Smyrna, GA 30080 Suite 110
Buen Provecho: 2468 Windy Hill Rd SE, Marietta, GA 30067

If you wish to make a cash donation go to 

The business of publishing. Seriously, how much money will my book make?

The business of publishing. Seriously, how much money will my book make?

Literary agent Rubin Pfeffer was in Atlanta last spring. He gave an insightful talk about the business of publishing and how much an author makes from each book sold. This is what he said:

Once you turn a manuscript over to an agent you walk away from the creative side and you walk into the business side. Becoming a full time authors is down the road (way down).

How much money will you make?

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Missing the Middle Grade Mark: 12 Common Manuscript Problems

Middle grade is hot.

Agents and editors are seeking more middle grade content as an answer to a saturated young adult market.

In the spring, I attended a talk on writing and publishing middle grade novels with Sky Pony Press senior editor, Alison Weiss.

She gave a list of the 12 most common middle grade manuscript pitfalls she sees in her query inbox.


MG = middle grade

YA = young adult

DA= diverse author

Problem #1 Your character is too young or too old

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Why write YA? The virtues of this category and concepts every writer should know.

This Spring I attended a  SCBWI Southern Breeze SpringMingle conference with  Jacquelyn Mitchard.  Mitchard is a New York Times bestselling author and editor of Merit Press, an imprint of Simon and Schuster. Her novel The Deep End of the Ocean was Oprah Winfrey Book Club’s inaugural selection and was later adapted into a film.

During her workshop titled Why write YA? she talked about the virtues of writing for the young adult (YA) book category and some concepts every aspiring YA writer must know.  

From Mitchard:

YA is a growing market

YA is the only consistently growing category of fiction. Teens are embracing books and buying hardcovers over e-books. They love stories like no one else. To a teen, the characters in these books are real people. When you write YA, you hook a reader for life.
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Best-selling author Jacquelyn Mitchard talks great beginnings, story structure, dialogue and great endings

On Friday, I attended Jacquelyn Mitchard’s writers intensive workshop as part of the SCBWI Southern Breeze SpringMingle conference. Mitchard is a New York Times bestselling author and editor of Merit Press, an imprint of Simon and Schuster. Her novel The Deep End of the Ocean was Oprah Winfrey Book Club’s inaugural selection and was later adapted into a film. She has written over twenty books for adults, teens and children. She is also a faculty member at the Vermont College of Fine Arts. 

Mitchard had me at hello. Her morning talk began something like this: In hard times, “writing will save your life.”

Her day-long workshop focused on great beginnings, structure, dialogue, and great endings. I have compiled the highlights in the following post.
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The Breakout Novelist, a reference book for novelist

This is my second read of the The Breakout Novelist by literary agent Donald Maass. The first was while I was revising my second manuscript– a contemporary YA, which landed me an agent and is currently under submission (fingers & toes crossed). Now, as I write past the midpoint of my third manuscript (in-progress), I needed a refresher, so again I rifled through my worn copy of this writing craft favorite.   

Maass says every novelist could strengthen three primary levels of novel: plot, individual scenes and line-by-line micro-tension.

Below you will find some highlights on these three areas extracted from The Breakout Novelist. The book also covers other important topics like premise, stakes, character development and world-building.  
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Dear Kid Lit Writers of Color: The odds are not in your favor.   

Face it. They are not. I don’t care how good your book is.

I’m not saying this as some emotional rant, but as a fact.

Look at this chart:

It is an infographic on kid lit publishing statistics provided by the Cooperative Children’s Book Center and designed by Sarah Park Dahlen.

Based on this illustration, the half-Latina protagonist in my YA novel—her name is Jo Lopez—has a 2.4% chance of being published. My odds would have jumped a full 10% if I had written Jo as a non-racial animal or an inanimate object like a cupcake, instead. But she is neither. She is a half-Latina from NYC having a hilarious—sometimes quirky—identity crisis while attending a cowgirl camp in Wyoming. And she was written by an author of color to connect with readers of color.

None of that matters, though. It doesn’t matter how well the book is written. It doesn’t matter that it’s an original premise. It doesn’t even matter that Latino readers are one of the fastest growing book markets in the U.S. The fact remains that Jo’s odds of publication are 2.4%. Even when one in four female students in public schools across the U.S. is Latina, according to a White House report.

What is even more astounding is that a whopping 25% of the nation’s public school students are Hispanic, yet they can only see themselves in 2.4% of children’s books that are published. How is that even possible?

It may have something to do with another fact: 80% of the publishing industry is white. Which would explain why 73% of the children’s books published in 2015 depicted main characters who were also white—I refer you back to the infographic.

Facing these staggering odds, I have come to realize that Jo may very well become a statistic. I have accepted this fact, not out of frustration but because I want to change things. It is not until we accept our reality that we are able to change it. So instead of getting angry and crying foul I am working to made a difference and so can you.

Here is how:

VOLUNTEER: I am a proud volunteer for the We Need Diverse Books (WNDB) organization. Their internship grant program gave eleven people opportunities in children’s publishing this summer. Four of them landed jobs after the internship. In January, WNDB will be publishing the short story anthology titled Flying Lessons aimed at promoting diversity among middle grade readers. WNDB’s programs also include awards, grants, contests, mentorships and resources for librarians and teachers.

MAKE A DONATION: If you can’t donate time, then donate money. WNDB needs our financial support to function. Your donations have a direct impact on the success of our mission—case in point: debut author A.C. Thomas, who won the WNDB’s Walter Dean Myers Grant in 2015. Her novel, The Hate U Give, will be published in 2017 and a feature film will follow.

ATTEND AN EVENT: Support the book launch of another writer of color, sign-up for a writers conference, join a critique group, attend a writers mixer. There is strength in numbers—show up, be seen and connect with other writers, and with industry professionals.

HOST AN EVENT: Get off your writing chair and host a local mixer, a writing group, a critique group, a writers’ retreat or a workshop. This is a great opportunity to connect with other authors and build relationships.

SPREAD THE WORD: Promote books and events that give writers of color a seat at the table. Use social media to boost signals on book releases, events and industry news.

KEEP WRITING: My personal goal is to produce one manuscript a year—regardless of whether it gets published or not. The result is that by the end of this year, I will have written three full-length manuscripts. With each one, my voice is honed, my writing flows better, and my story-telling technique improves.

We need more authors of color writing books of

all genres, for all readers.

We need our voices to be loud enough that they can’t be ignored.

Or even worse, be defined by a number on an infographic.

Join us on November 12 at 7 p.m. for Eagle Eye After Hours: Young Adult and Middle Grade Writers Mixer

Join us on Saturday, November 12 at 7 p.m. at Eagle Eye Books in Decatur for drinks, snacks and dessert! This is a unique opportunity to build and expand your local writers community. You can meet new authors or reconnect with your writer friends. It is also a great place to meet a critique partner or find a writing group. Multiple published authors will attend, so bring all your industry questions. Great advice and encouragement abound!
The evening will be hosted by Atlanta writers Marie Marquardt and Mayra Cuevas. Advance registration is encouraged, please RSVP online here.

This event is not for profit, so we ask that you contribute $5 towards the purchase of food and beverages. Alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks will be available. We will send you a Paypal link for payment after you register.

Event linkGeorgia YA & MG Writers Mixer

See you there!

Five ways authors can use their Twitter header to build their platform

Your Twitter page header is prime Twitterverse real estate. Think of it as your own personal billboard. What do you want it to say?

A well crafted header can introduce you to potential readers, help create buzz about an upcoming book release, promote a new book or advertise a book tour.

1.Hello, Twitterverse

Let your header introduce you to the world. This is a great concept for authors working to build their platform or if you are new to Twitter. You don’t need to be an artist to create a professional looking header. Online tools like CanvaFotor or FotoJet let you include photos, logos, a website, other social media, quotes or a short description of your work. Ask yourself, what do you want your audience to know about you?

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